Q: Besides massaging, what else can I do during foreplay to raise the intensity?
A: Guys don’t understand this, but foreplay is crucial for women. Your first step should be to set the mood. Using candles, drawing a rose bath, trying aromatherapy oils, organising some strawberries and Champagne (for drinking and pouring on her) are all ways to set the mood for sex. Be creative, and try to tailor your approach to your woman’s favourite indulgences. Routine is excruciatingly boring, and she will start to feel that you expect sex every time you try your signature moves. With massaging, you can experiment with different oils and massaging tools for some variety. The trick is to focus on using your hands and mouth to caress her body so that the intensity is heightened. What’s in it for you? The more foreplay you provide, the more sex you will get.
