Inspire a woman to wear much lessA ratty bathrobe can be a compliment. It means she's comfortable around you. "She's saying that your relationship is at a point where all the superficial stuff is unnecessary." says Men's Health's Girl Next Door, Nicole Beland. But you love some of the superficial things - like the short skirts and high heels she wore to catch your attention. Your mission: get her to wear them more often. Here's how.
Excitement
“If you want a woman to be inspired to dress in a sexy way, give her something to be excited about,” Beland suggests. Buy tickets to a concert, take her to a romantic hotel bar or make dinner reservations and talk about your “date night” all week. If she knows you think the plans are romantic, she’ll dress to impress.
Positive reinforcement
Tell her when she looks irresistible so she’ll dress that way again. “She may not know that you noticed,” says Yvonne Fulbright, author of The Hot Guide to Safer Sex, “so why should she bother?” You may think your dropped jaw communicates how hot she looks. It helps, but she needs more. “Women get intimacy from words,” says anthropologist Helen Fisher, author of Why We Love. Articulate the effect she’s having on you. Say, “When you wear that sweater, it makes me want to peel it off you.”
Gifts
Women love gifts. This isn’t a newsflash, so why aren’t you surprising her with sexy clothes? And this doesn’t mean intimate lingerie – that’s too heavy-handed. Giving a woman a low-cut sweater or a short, silky robe is a good way to get her to show more skin.
Lead by example
This is a two-way street. Wear the shirt she says brings out your eyes and the pants that show off your butt. “If you make an effort, she’ll want to keep up with you,” says Beland.
