To get a new partner to climax quickly, you need to be able to find her clitoris. By far the easiest way to do this is to use her genital lips, or labia minora, as a guide. Follow them up from the bottom (closest to her backside) to where they come together towards the top (closest to her navel). Just beyond this point is a fleshy horizontal fold of skin. That’s the clitoral hood.
Put a finger above that and gently pull upwards, towards her belly, to expose a small fleshy knob between the lips. Bingo. That’s her clitoris. These little epicentres of pleasure come in all shapes and sizes. Some clitorises hide, others jump out. Some women have larger labia, while others have almost none. And some women have hefty clitoral hoods that need to be pulled back quite a bit to get to the love button. Rarely will the private parts of your sex interest look like porn-star pleasure boxes, especially since so many porn stars have had cosmetic surgery done to their genitals. So there’s simply no way you can know exactly where her clit is – or how to touch it – until you’ve done a little intrepid exploring.
Take a good look once you’ve found it. You’ll see it doesn’t look like a button, the way a nipple does. It’s the same colour as the inner, fleshy bits of her labia, which makes it a little tricky to see, but it does stand proud of the surrounding area when it’s fully aroused and engorged with blood. Courtesy of you, of course.
