Biologically speaking, at the critical moment of orgasm, she’d rather that it was you lying back and thinking of England. According to studies there is a general orgasmic principle of building up excitation in which rhythmic stimulation is absolutely critical. Break that at any point and it’s game over. “Most women have been there: ‘It’s coming! It’s coming!’ And suddenly it’s not, because spurred on by her excitement you get overenthusiastic and switch position,” says Dr Yvonne K Fulbright, author of Touch Me There!: A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots. You should stop at the crucial moment – when she is on the brink – and let her use you as a ‘point of resistance’ to take herself over the edge. Think of yourself as both rock and a hard place: just don’t move.
Wednesday, 22 October 2008
Do nothing
Biologically speaking, at the critical moment of orgasm, she’d rather that it was you lying back and thinking of England. According to studies there is a general orgasmic principle of building up excitation in which rhythmic stimulation is absolutely critical. Break that at any point and it’s game over. “Most women have been there: ‘It’s coming! It’s coming!’ And suddenly it’s not, because spurred on by her excitement you get overenthusiastic and switch position,” says Dr Yvonne K Fulbright, author of Touch Me There!: A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots. You should stop at the crucial moment – when she is on the brink – and let her use you as a ‘point of resistance’ to take herself over the edge. Think of yourself as both rock and a hard place: just don’t move.
