1.Explore new regions
You’ve heard about her nipples and vagina? Good. Now spend some time on the back of her neck. It’s a brave new world of nerve endings, so gentle caressing and kissing are all that’s needed. The base of her spine is sensation central, as well. Or gently stroke and kiss her belly just above the pubic hairline. Sex is about discovery, not reaching a destination.
2. Ask her to lose her underwear at dinner
The naked secret you share will linger through dessert, says sociologist Dr Pepper Schwartz, author of The Great Sex Weekend.
3. Experiment with grooming
That is, trim each other’s pubic hair until it’s just right. You’re making some smooth skin, which is much more pleasing for the 12-second kisses. But it also makes for fun in the shower. It’s slow and methodical, but it also allows for some power-playing. She has the razor; she has control. And you determine, with her help, just how bare she’s willing to go.
