You want to follow you sexual instincts? Well, guess what, they’re all wrong.
THE STRIP TEASE
The instinct
To tear her clothes off with your teeth.
The better move
Coax her clothes off.
Some women feel uneasy if they're naked too soon. So pace yourself. Undo only her first two shirt buttons. Go beneath her clothes without removing them. Unzip her jeans. Run your fingers under her bra straps. You're trying to hint at what's going to follow once the clothes do come off. Aim for four minutes; anymore and she may think you don't want to see her naked.
THE SMOOTH MOVE
The instinct
To squeeze her breasts like a stress ball.
The better move
Lighten your touch - your job is to please her, not satisfy yourself with a fact-finding grope. A guy's 'average' touch is 20 percent more forceful than a woman's. Concentrate on areas of her upper body that don't get a lot of play, like her collarbone, the inside of her arms and the sides of her stomach.
THE THRUSTER
The instinct
She's going wild, so you want to go faster, deeper and harder.
The better move
Try slow, shallow thrusts instead. At the start, going slow and shallow will help the vaginal wall expand, allowing for deeper penetration. Don't think of intercourse as a race to the top; it's a measured, gradual climb.
