ON THE BEACH
You've both thought about it, so expectations are high. "Beaches connote both sex and romance," says Ellen Kate Friedrichs, of www.sexedvice.com. Bring up the idea early in a trip to heighten anticipation. And don't be impulsive - pick your spot carefully and bring a blanket. Wait until long after sunset, then get away from the ambient light of the boardwalk or pier. And stay clear of the dunes as you won't be able to hear an interloper until he or she is on top of you.
ON A CAMPING TRIP
Don't confine your primal urges to the tent (although a stealth shag in a campground with neighbours nearby is hot). On a hike, it's worth carrying the extra weight of blankets and a sleeping roll. Then get off the trail, find a sheltered spot and let it happen. In camp, you can turn your regular sleeping bags into a fun house for two - as long as one bag has a zip on the left and the other a zip on the right.
IN THE HOT TUB
It's simultaneously private and out in the open. And you can both be stark (or nearly) naked without feeling exposed, thanks to the churning water. Hot tubs are social, relaxing spaces, but they also represent sexiness. And she'll love those jets. We suggest a silicone-based lube for whatever you have in mind as her natural lubrication will wash away.
