Forget the sex shops, your supermarket has all the sex accessories you need. If she's a little nervous about being adventurous with sex toys, bring a hot water bottle to bed. It's comforting and warming. Let it rest between her legs. "Safety, warmth and arousal are inextricably linked," says sensualist Jonti Searll. "The safer she feels the more turned on she'll get." The key is not to overfill it, there needs to be a little give.
